If you want honesty, be honest. If you want a caring person, be caring. If you want humility, be humble. If you want ____, be it.
Humility is assessed by your prayer life. Pride is thinking you can live without constant prayer & going hours without it.
Humility is seen in how quickly we admit our own faults & how quickly we overlook & forgive other's faults.
Being certain of Scripture's authority is humility. Being certain that my interpretation is always right is arrogance.